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How to ask a former coworker out on a date ?

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Leo36 · 08/04/2018 14:23

Hi , I would like to get advice on how to ask a soon former coworker out on a date . Me and her worked for the same company for few years .. I am attracted to her physically and I also always admire the way she handles herself , her personality etc.. despite my feelings I never entertained the idea of asking her out directly because I feel it would probably make things weird since we both work for the same employer . I also know she feels the same way ( one time she made a comment at work about not dating people at work in general ) .... last week I found out she’s leaving our company and technically me and her will be coworkers for one more week.... how should I approach this ? How should I ask her out without making it weird ? How soon should I ask her out ? Should I wait she’s out of the company before I ask her out ? I am a bit shy with this situations and I also know she is too... would love to hear your advices , she is a really nice girl and I don’t want to mess this up or make her feel uncomfortable with a wrong approach - thank you all in advance Smile

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Overthinker1 · 08/04/2018 14:34

Personally I would just ask if she would like to go for lunch or coffee in the near future. If she says yes swap numbers and set a date. I find casual works best as you relax a lot quicker! Good luck!

Cricrichan · 08/04/2018 14:40

I'd say that you're sorry to see her go but would love to carry on seeing each other and ask her if she'd like to go out for a drink in a few weeks. When you go out, you can gauge her behaviour towards you.

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