Should I call it a day?

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I have been in a long distance relationship for over three years, and it's just not moving on, and as time goes on she is becoming more distant,i am not aloud to stay if her kids are there, her mum lives close to me and,she stays with her every school holiday never with me in a week i will see her a couple of nights , we have children the same age as well, am I wasting my time with someone who doesn't want to be with me ?

Yes, you're wasting your time. Re-read your thread and the answer will be obvious.

After 3 years .. yes, I think your wasting your time.

What’s her reason for not going any further? Meeting kids, staying over ..

Her ex, she originally told me that he had no interest in her any more (they broke up after 21 years because he cheated on her lots of times) and she says she wants to spend time with just us as a couple

I have met her children just in the day, I am very much in love with her.

How old are you both ?

Have you ever discussed plans to one day live together ?

Do you feel she feels the same way about you..

Yes wasting your time. Move on

I am 44 she is 43 , she is definitely on the spectrum of autism in my opinion my son is on the spectrum who is 16 now, we have spoken about it she says when her kids are grown up in ten years!