DH looking at pics of sexy women.

[GrumpyMoo]

Last night DH comes upstairs and says he's just shutting the computer down ... over an hour later still not come to bed... so I pop downstairs... he looks a bit furtive... and starts being over solicitous cos I'm getting a painkiller for a potential migraine...

We are in a bit of a dry-spell (6 weeks since any kind of sex).... we have a 16 month old DD... and very little energy - both of us... we are 2 years married, 7 years together in total.

Now I'm just trying to get my head around it. Now that I'm past the initial cold guts feeling and then the feelings of insecurity over my weight and lack of interest in staying up to midnight every night watching movies.

IT's ok guys, it's all a cliche anyway. and it's not like there's anything i can do about it. except eat cake and drink gin!

Sorry I might be being dim but did you find him looking at pics or you just suspect it ?

I think it is normal especially when you’re going through a dry spell and exhausted from small kids.

I’m sure he still finds you attractive.

Do you go on date nights etc ?

Sorry, can you explain a bit more as your OP doesn't explain that well?
Did you see that he was looking at sexy pics/porn & if so what has he said about it? Is the dry spell you/him/both?

He is having a walk & annoyed you have come downstairs & disturbed him.
I know the feeling well!