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Looking at other women’s breasts

15 replies

Maybellissimo · 02/04/2018 12:10

Especially large breasts. I noticed bil doing it a lot when we were out with him and sil the other day. She gets really upset about it especially as she is an AA cup. He’s always told her he prefers small breasts but he’s clearly lying Hmm I’ve never noticed my dh doing it. Is it a thing? Do men prefer large breasts?

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Rainboho · 02/04/2018 12:16

Men don’t tend to be one big homogeneous group, so no one could categorically say that men prefer large breasts.

What your SIL has is a respect problem not a boob problem.

PrettyLittIeThing · 02/04/2018 13:07

Most do.

Onemansoapopera · 02/04/2018 13:10

I'm a woman and I would probably glance twice at a woman if she had her boobs out. I'm not gay, its human nature surely for the whole species men and women? But if he's being rude about then its a question of manners , not reflex human nature.

Ski40 · 02/04/2018 13:15

Tell her to start checking out other men's packages and to be as blatant as she can about it. I hope she has also told him she doesn't mind a small one.😁
Men like all boobs.Staring in front of your wife is just being a disrespectful knob and he needs to be shown. 🌹

starsandstuff · 02/04/2018 13:16

I think humans notice breasts, not just men. But is he making a big deal of it because if he is he's being a dick to your SIL and the woman he's ogling. You could always advise her to spend a few outings loudly admiring random blokes' packages/bums/abs. Immature, yes, but fuck that guy.

starsandstuff · 02/04/2018 13:18

hi @Ski40 aka my mind twin Grin

ForalltheSaints · 02/04/2018 13:19

There is a difference between a quick glance and gawping, which it seems is what the OPs BIL is doing.

NoCureForLove · 02/04/2018 13:21

Yuk. He sounds a real prize - a prize twat.

Ski40 · 02/04/2018 13:23

@starsandstuff Hi! Great minds and all that 😁😁

HonkyWonkWoman · 02/04/2018 13:36

As an ex Licensee who has overheard a lot of male conversations, I would say that the majority of males like large breasts.

fantasmasgoria1 · 02/04/2018 13:42

My fiancé likes bums and legs which is fortunate because I have long slim legs and an ok bum. I have c cup boobs which he likes but would rather touch my bum and legs. My ex used to stare at women and deny it. He used to do it on purpose towards the end to hurt me.
He preferred small boobs and it was always bums he stared at.

Dahlietta · 02/04/2018 14:04

As an ex Licensee who has overheard a lot of male conversations, I would say that the majority of males like large breasts.

Or at least, the men who hang around in bars/pubs having audible conversations about women's breasts feel that they ought to declare loudly that they prefer large ones.

Personalsituations99 · 02/04/2018 14:22

dahlietta
Read my mind. My boobs aren't huge, but my man prefers bums lol! Tbh I think they are better to look at too Grin
As for your bil he's and immature prize prat! No it's not normal to stare. It's normal to notice and that's it. Chance are if he only noticed, Sil wouldn't notice him noticing. So he's clearly staring!
It's rude tastless and manchild behaviour!

yetmorecrap · 02/04/2018 14:52

I have big boobs, I would personally love to have way smaller boobs. It seems to give some men the right to gawp yes, I do tend to wear lower cut clothes too but that’s because to be honest if you have big boobs high cut tops often don’t really suit you and make you look even bigger

BarbaraOcumbungles · 02/04/2018 14:56

As owner of big breasts I find 99% of men will look at them in there is any cleavage at all exposed and for that reason I very rarely wear low cut tops. It’s like they can’t help themselves.

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