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sunflowers29 · 01/04/2018 22:13

about a year ago I met this guy off a dating app, at the time he told me he was separated and then it has come to light i have my suspicions he is not as ,when he goes home he stays with his wife, he before told me he stays with friends.
he wont get a divorce. I feel bad I was sucked in by his lies. Last night i went out and he asked if I met anyone & what I was wearing. He doesn't want to be with me. I told him once I went on a date then next he sent me a pic of him getting his dick sucked by another girl- really nice I now. He only wants to see me on his terms.
every time I see him i feel bad as he is no good for my friends have warned me.

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user1493413286 · 01/04/2018 22:15

He sounds like a nasty piece of work; try to be strong and block then delete his number to give you the headspace to move on

mindboggled88 · 01/04/2018 22:32

Cut him loose, you're worth more. I'm going to assume your self-esteem is low because you want attention from this absolute shit-bag. You're worth more than this sunflower. I hope my reply doesn't sound too harsh, it's intended to be more of a kick up the arse.
He is a low-life. If this was your daughter or friend doing this, what would you tell her?

sunflowers29 · 01/04/2018 22:41

thank you both for the replies
mindboggled88- that's exactly what my friend said
my daughter hates him, yes my self esteem is low he doesnt want me but doesn't want anyone else to have me

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mindboggled88 · 02/04/2018 17:20

Don't let him take advantage and hurt you, I've been there because my self-esteem is in the gutter too. It only makes it worse.

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