Met on dating site. Seemed lovely. Called every night for hours
Sent photo of a room packed with things saying was moving to mums from a flat he'd been renting
Sent photo of divorce application
(I never asked for these photos they were amongst other random WhatsApp)
Called on his way to/from kids each weekend. Sent photos of kids occasionally with him at weekend
Never showed me where he lived. Never introduced me to a single friend of his. Never went out anywhere in his area. Usually spoke to me on phone in his car. Occasionally in house with mother who doesn't speak English
I accepted the above as that he was from another culture who wouldn't accept me unless we were to get married
On a course once asked me not to act like I was more than a friend in case his colleagues attended and said he hadn't told work he was split from wife and just said she was fine if they asked
Breakup - tons of ignoring and not reading/responding to anything or if answered phone would always have to "call back" then call back from car usually
I know nobody can say for certain but it's fairly likely I've been his "oops I got bored of marriage I'm going back to it now" OW isn't it?