not attracted to dp anymore

[poorpedro]

we've been together 3 years and have 1 dc. i have just lost all attraction. the thought of having sex fills me with dread and i make excuses all the time so we hardly ever do it even though he still wants it a lot. i can't even remember the last time we kissed. i don't know what to do. i don't even know if i want it back or if it's too late anyway anyone have any words of wisdom?

No words of wisdom I'm afraid, only that I know how you feel. I'm not attracted to my husband either. It's a shit way to feel so you have my sympathies :-(

Can you pin point anything specifically or is it just a general feeling? For me, my husbands laziness at home -cleaning and parenting, plus general miserableness and negativity is so unattractive. That has just chipped away at any feelings of attraction I had for him. We also don't have sex. Literally ever. I reckon I could count on my hands the amount of time we've had full sex and we've been together nearly 8 years.

Thanks for replying, it's good to know i'm not alone. I feel the same as you really. i'm sick of the bad moods from asking him to tidy up or look after dd while i tidy up or just go to the toilet. it's so frustrating isn't it. how long have felt like this? and do you think he knows?