I’m hoping you’ll have stories that will give me reason to feel optimistic & maybe some ideas. DH & I have kids in late teens, so shifting into the next phase of life, & things aren’t great. Seems like we’ve lost our way. I would like us to be our best selves when we’re together, but far from it. I’m finding his constant negativity (old trait but compounded by health issues) hard to live with; I’m struggling to be kind... I don’t want to just bail out, but would like things to be better. Any of you rekindled old sparks or otherwise got your relationship back onto better ground?