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Advice please? Is this mental abuse? With going based on the things he is saying?? I'm going out my mind!!!

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user1489269570 · 19/02/2018 09:46

Why did I even stay faithful to you
You are the problem
You have issues
You’re weak.
Your tears mean nothing to me.
I get a hug off of him and says just sort yourself out, I have anxiety and maybe paranoia??? I don't know..
and everytime we argue all he seems to care about is whos fault it is.
It feels like he trying to trap me indoors as well...it's my babies birthday on Thursday and I need to go out and shop and with all this argueing he says when u walk out this door I'm packing my stuff and leaving for good.
I am pregnant with his second kid. 😩

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hellsbellsmelons · 19/02/2018 09:52

Yes yes yes and yes again!
This is NOT OK!
Please go out and let him pack his bags and leave.
You already know it's having a negative impact on your mental health.
You will be far better off with him out of your life.
Do you have any family or friends nearby you can contact to help you?
What is the living situation?
Please call Womens Aid - 0808 2000 247
They can help you understand it all and then get an exit plan in place.
He is literally sending you crazy!
Don't let anyone do that to you.

Please also get the Lundy Bancroft book 'Why does he do that?'
And have a read of THIS THREAD

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