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Giving OH Space -part 2

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1940gal · 16/02/2018 11:02

So just a rant into the void again....

I'm just utterly fed up. In so much Pain, so frightened about losing my job and the possibility of paralysis. So so lonely and really need a bit of positivity

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GreenFingersWouldBeHandy · 16/02/2018 11:05

Hi OP,

I read your post the other day. Just wanted to hi and hold your hand for a bit. How are things with your OP now? I'm guessing not much better.

Flowers
1940gal · 16/02/2018 11:38

Hello Green....

Things just seem to go from bad to worse.

Yesterday the kids and I made her a meal to come home to, set the table nicely, flowers and the kids made her a home made card to say 'welcome home'. It was hardly acknowledged and the food was just criticised. The kids seemed oblivious (maybe due to the fact that they have a new hamster so they're pre occupied with him) .... but I just sobbed all evening at the build up and let down.

Come 2200 a row ensued.... the usual, money,my weight gain, the fact I'd left a pan to soak.. ..

Went to bed in tears and woke up to silence....

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GreenFingersWouldBeHandy · 16/02/2018 12:55

That's just lousy. No wonder you are upset.

1940gal · 16/02/2018 14:03

I'm just exhausted and confused.

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Wellfuckmeinbothears · 16/02/2018 14:08

Hi op,

I replied on your other thread. Your wife sounds horrid and checked out of the relationship.

Are you dependent on her for now while you recover?

1940gal · 16/02/2018 14:41

Yes completely

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