Just wondering,how much "real" time do you guys get off on your own or with dh's. We do a babysit swap with friends so, all being well, we go out together every other month. I go on a girl's drink (fairly tame, but nice all the same) once a week. Dh goes to local most nights, I don't mind as he works at home and needs some other company than just us. Are we (am I) a couple of saddo's? Dds are 2 and 4 1/2.