I need some advice

[Icepink39]

Hi i need some advice ive been with my guy for four years everything has been great up to now .Now he has gone moody and snaps at me he no longer wants to cuddle me or kiss me when i ask him if everything is ok he snaps and says he is fine he now is taking his phone every where but never has before

Do you live together? Does he behave suspiciously other times such as working late and evenings away?

Getting protective over his mobile seems strange and potentially indicates he may be having an affair .
Have you asked him if he is happy in the relationship and why he doesn't want intimacy? Xx

We dont live together i have three kids and he has a daughter when i ring him the nights he isnt here he dont answer it when i ask him he just says he fell asleep watching tv

I think im now single i got a tx saying cant do this anymore

I'm really sorry, OP.

You don't want someone who finishes things by text xx

Ive txed him back saying we need to talk but have had nothing back x

Thank you bigchris x

He won t want to talk he ll tell you he needs some space and try and quietly disappear.

I am sorry op

But four years together dont that mean anything to him x

Frankly sweetie if he has someone else on the side, and it looks like he does, then no it won't mean anything at all.

Hugs to you op that a a shitty situation to be in X

Thank you im gutted but i guess your right if he has then he wont give a dam x

Have you got a friend you can be with tomorrow? Someone you can confide in? This must be an awful shock.