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WWYD - cheating

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PhoebefromFriends · 01/02/2018 20:52

There is a guy in my office who admitted to me that during his recent holiday he cheated on his GF having unprotected sex with a number of different people. He is worried he caught something but has continued having sex with his GF since his return but using condoms, which they don't usually use. I explained to him how risky that is and he must get tested ASAP and he must dump his GF and tell her to get tested. I'm disgusted with him and his attitude to his GF. I am concerned for this woman's health. He's told me he's going to get tested and is going to break up with her but he's such a liar that I'm just not sure he will. So I suppose I'm asking if I can locate her on FB should I message her?

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gamerchick · 01/02/2018 20:55

Why is he sharing this stuff with you? Does he think you’ll be impressed that he’s a stud? Confused

Say out of it, it really isn’t anything to do with you and tell him to shut his yap on his oversharing.

SandyY2K · 01/02/2018 20:55

I wouldn't contact her. She's not your friend and hopefully he will get tested or dump her.

Poor woman.

ThisLittleKitty · 01/02/2018 20:56

Why are you getting involved? Remember the messenger always gets shot. You don't even know her. Why should he dump her? Plenty of women forgive cheating.

PhoebefromFriends · 01/02/2018 20:57

I don't really know why he's telling me to be honest, I don't think he's that bright. He has no guilt about it. It's just grim.

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PhoebefromFriends · 01/02/2018 20:59

He slept with a number of people on a holiday and clearly wants to continue doing this, which is fine if he's single or they've both agreed but they haven't.

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Spartak · 01/02/2018 20:59

No good will come from you sticking your beak in here.

Blackteadrinker77 · 01/02/2018 21:04

Stay out of it

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