Im so upset. I’m 4 weeks pregnant, I had an early miscarriage last month. My fiancé had a work meal tonight with couples so although I’m exhausted I felt I had to go. All was fine until he had 4 pints, is already said I didn’t feel well, left most of my meal and asked in private if we could go after desserts. He ordered another drink and was laughing with the work people, I said it a few more times and he seemed to make it obvious and sarcastic. I’m already worried I’ll lose this baby so I want to take care of myself, but it’s like he doesn’t care.
Eventually he gets the bill but then says we’ll drop someone else home. On the way home (35 Min drive) I say to him I said I didn’t feel well and I’m not going to be happy if I lose this baby too. He says I insinuated that it’ll be his fault. I said I didn’t mean that but would just like him to look after me and accept if I don’t feel well.
The whole drive he was shouting at the at the top of his voice telling me to grow up etc etc making me really tearful.
The things he said tonight were really hurtful and i don’t know what to do. Please help.