My ex still a pain trying to brow beat me and get the upper hand !

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rang him tonite to sort things out . He was drunk so instead of a conversation he just lectured me. Really should have put the phone down. He still never listens and speaks to me in that subordinate fashion. Wish i could just break free but cant cos of ds 6 yrs who sees him twice weekly.
Sorry to rant...had to get it off my chest. Anyone similar ? ? ?

Oh yes.

I also have an ex-h who doesn't listen - had a horrible conversation on the phone with him a couple of weeks ago when he accused me of lying/using dd as a weapon/being obstructive etc. All completely untrue. Don't you just wish they would disappear and let you and your dc get on with your life?

yes true. Have to move house in 3 weeks and wish i did not have to tell him our new address. he scares me cos he is so bullying. but must let him have his son as usual or i will get more animosity and solicotors letters. oh well if that happens i will tell them how difficult and drunk he has been ! Mind you unless he is real sweet in the next 2 weeks i will withold the address for bout a week just to let him sting a bit. know it petty but sick and tired of his bossyness.