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WWYD?

10 replies

SmiledWithTheRisingSun · 14/01/2018 12:40

Friend number 1 tells you that Friend number 2's DH groped her but not to tell F2.

Shocked and disturbed by this info.

WWYD?

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Aridane · 14/01/2018 12:49

Nothing

SmiledWithTheRisingSun · 14/01/2018 12:52

That's what I'm inclined to think. But can't help wondering if it were my DH - would I want to know? Hmm

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whoareyoukidding · 14/01/2018 12:56

Stay well out of it: you'll be glad you said nowt once it all kicks off.

ThisLittleKitty · 14/01/2018 12:57

Again nothing. Trust me been there done that and ime you as the messenger always ends up getting shot. She will stay will him and stop talking to you two. Happens ALOT

Angelf1sh · 14/01/2018 12:59

Why is friend 1 telling you this information? What does she expect you to do with it?

SmiledWithTheRisingSun · 14/01/2018 13:03

Well I think she was quite pissed off angel and surprised/ shocked by the behaviour. I don't think she has any bad intentions in telling me.

I'm not blaming her for it it's totally his fault for being a letch.

It's just making me feel really disappointed in him & bad fit friend 2 and her children! I thought he was one of the good guys.

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ladybee28 · 14/01/2018 13:04

Maybe start by making sure F1 is OK (not sure exactly what level of assault 'groping' refers to)?

I'd focus my attentions on F1 for now – must be horrible for her.

SmiledWithTheRisingSun · 14/01/2018 13:04

"Bad for" not "bad fit"

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SmiledWithTheRisingSun · 14/01/2018 13:05

Thanks ladyb agreed.

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MyKingdomForBrie · 14/01/2018 13:07

Ohh definitely just support F1 and whatever she wants.

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