How would you feel?

[Newbee99]

I've been talking to this girl for a while via message/calls,I already knew her before this but had since been in a relationship.well Few days ago she went on a date with a guy(I have no problem with as were not together)
I joked oh maybe this is the one,her reply was I get bored though and I won't see him again...I don't have enough time for myself let alone someone else for relationship at the moment and because of her past relationship.
So I went bit cold on her over last few days as I don't want be wasting my time getting hurt,I do really like her though,she has since asked if she has done anything to upset me?do you think I should just say nothing?

How old are you?

She's told you explicitly she doesn't want a relationship - it's good she's been honest. Either that or 'she's just not that into you'.

Whatever the case, I don't think you'll change her mind, so it's probably best to cut your losses and move on.

Just reply to say that you like her but understand that she's not looking for a relationship, so think it's best to end things and wish her all the best

Hang on I've just seen it doesn't look like you've actually been on a date. You've just been talking and she's been on dates with other people.

Sounds like she just sees you as a friend.l so ignore my last post

Do nothing. She's not interested in a relationship.

Jesus

I’ve never known something be so clear