I joined tinder just over a month ago and swiped right for a man I knew from when I was a teenager (my first love used to be his friend). We chatted for a while and had a lovely date but since then we’ve just messaged each other. He has a lot going on in his life which I understand so we have decided just to stay friendly and chat every now and then, which I’m happy with, he’s a nice man.
Anyway I’ve been off tinder over xmas so decided to have another look and his friend has popped up. Now he is really nice looking and a nice person and I would normally swipe right, but don’t know whether this would look a bit vindictive to the other guy and I don’t want that to happen. Any advice on what to do. Anyway it’s probably unlikely he would swipe for me, but just in case....