I'm here under a different as I had to delete my old account due to my ex finding it but just wanted to thank you all so much for helping me leave an awful relationship of 10 years with my three children. Things are tough but the last 6months have been so much better and so far this has been the best Christmas ever. No more him not wanting to get up and being jealous of me spending time with the children, no more arguing and him picking arguments with the kids and even though I'm skint the children got silly things to play with and we had a movie night last night which would never have happened last year. They are so much nicer to each other and we are going to see my family for lunch with no fear of him making it awquard. The children are at his tomorrow and I will miss them but the time we have together is so much better.
Thank you so so much for all your help and hand holding through it all you really are great people!