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Fed up with dh's lack of support

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whoopsfallenoveragain · 22/04/2007 10:33

I have started trying to lose weight but all dh can do is moan about how much I'm going to the gym and that when we move I won't be able to go (even though I have to pay for it til the end of August) and that I'm spending too much on food for me but he won't eat the food I want to and everything he has isn't suitable for my diet.
I feel like he doesn't want me to lose the weight and feel better about myself even though he does at times make comments about my size. I feel like just walking out at the moment as he has just complained about me looking at dresses for a dinner dance I am going to next week but instead I'll have to throw some clothes together from my wardrobe and look drab again

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elkiedee · 22/04/2007 16:29

Well, it's ridiculous for him to complain about you eating more healthily. I'd say leave him to live on the cheese toasties if that's what he wants to do. I'm a bit of a diet sceptic but I still hope you get what you want from your diet, and since I got pregnant with a baby who's now due very soon, I'm much more concerned about eating more healthily - now it's what will stay down but I'm looking forward to eating more healthy food (and probably more junk food as well) when baby's here. I also want to set the baby a better example than mine or my parter's diet at the moment, although my mum's good example didn't work on me.

Anyway, you should hold on to what you want to do, and enjoy your fruit and veg.

whoopsfallenoveragain · 22/04/2007 16:39

lol again wt!
I am having the dress delivered to my parents and I won't be getting there until about 30 mins before I have to be at the dinner dance so need something as a back up as it is next Friday
Yes I know leaving things to the last minute again!
Elkiedee I am going to be leaving him to his toasties I think! the only thing is although he seems bigger than me I have one of those fat monitor thingies and his percentage of Fat % is a lot lower than mine

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