I kicked out OH 1week ago after finding out he had been having an affair for 1 year. We had been together for 15 and married 7. We have a 6 year old. We have a mortgage as got our first house 1 1/2 yrs ago. He asking how much he should pay. How am I meant to know? I may no longer be able to afford the house and may not get re mortgaged on my own!!! I may have to uproot my child and move 200miles away to be with family for support and be able to live. Houses down south I will not afford on my own wage. 😪😪😪😪😪