Hi i told my other half off 16 years i want to split and we have 4 dc together. At first he was begging me for another chance and i kept telling him no i want out. He was also name calling me and that i was a bad mother for wanting to split the family up.
There has been alot of mind games over the years and sulking he just last week ignored me for 2 days.
So yesterday he comes in from work pleasant as ever and he says im giving you what you want and was being all nicey nice.
Im now having feeling of am i doing the right thing as my kids world will be blown apart. I know if i stay i will continue to be miserable but do i stay just for the children?