I ended my relationship with partner on Friday and asked him to leave.
In the mean time a friend had been phoning me and texting me all day, I ignored her messages because it was constant and I had a gut feeling she was in contact with my dp.
This friend is a coupley friend but primarily my friend.
Saturday we were supposed to be meeting up and told her I was still going to this place. I ended up standing on my own as she didn't turn up. I went home and about half hour later received message from her saying sorry I looked for you but couldn't see you I'm in the pub. I told her it was no fun standing on my own in the cold and I'd gone home.
She messaged me this morning and the message was off. I asked if she was in touch with my ex. She told me he had spent the weekend with them.
I feel absolutely betrayed that she didn't tell me immediately. It's not so much that he stayed there but he tells me that they had a conversation about telling me. Her husband told my ex he should tell me but they decided not to and that she would tell me.
So instead of meeting me she was stood in the pub with him.
Ex thinks I am completely unreasonable and it's my fault for not answering her texts or calls on Friday but quite frankly I was in a bit of a mess.
I feel absolutely floored