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Staying out of guilt

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user1466108618 · 25/11/2017 10:53

Been together 16 years i now know i want to split but feel a bit guilty should i just stay to save any aggro? I really dont want too infact i know i dont. Any advice?

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jeaux90 · 25/11/2017 10:56

Yes. My advice is that it's your life and if you are unhappy you have every right to finish your relationship.

jeaux90 · 25/11/2017 10:57

If you have kids the most important thing is to split amicably and work out how to co-parent effectively and fairly.

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user1466108618 · 25/11/2017 11:07

Thank you both i am very unhappy and im now finding the strength i need to do what i need too do.

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