None of us are perfect but I like to think I’m pretty accepting of other peoples’ opinions, behaviour etc within reason. A few times over the years, DH has said something like “ I know better than to do X because I know what reaction I’ll get”. Today we were talking about Christmas & he made a negative remark so I jokingly said “ Hope you’re not going all Bah Humbug” & he said “ I wouldn’t dare go Bah Humbug because I know what will happen”. Honestly, you’d think I was a right nag or always criticising bu I rarely react in the way he seems to think I will. This confuses me because we’ve been together 16 years so should know each other really well. I wonder if he kind of expects all women to be a certain way. Well, I’m not all women! Any thoughts & can anyone relate?