It's a contact one.
DP had two DS's, DSC whom he sees every other weekend. And 2 nights a week at his ex wife's house. She won't allow him to bring the children away on a school night, or take them out for a bit. Has to be at hers. The weekends he takes the children down to his mothers because she doesn't want them around me and my DC. No there was no affair, I wasn't the other women. She's just a bit... odd.
AIBU to think that this too much?
We're thinking about ttc soon, and I've recently wondered do I really want to put myself in this position long term. Where he's home and available for just us 2-3 nights a week.