Left emotionally abusive? Partner

[QueenOfTheMadhouse]

Just finished things with partner of over one year. Last week was awful. My poor children deserve so much better and I feel like I have failed them :(. Came to head as last week every time they asked me to do something I physically shook in case I did something wrong and my eldest actually commented :( knew I had to end it. I feel crap though but dont know why.

Well at least you had the guts to end it after a year instead of letting it get worse. You hsve put your children first. I know you don't feel it right now, but I think you are great. Had similar myself, I understand that shaking so well in case you do something wrong. I think you are very brave.