Taking the huff

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My other has took the huff as i said i didnt want to go to a wrestling event. I dont watch it or even like it so i said no, hes now been sitting in a huff all afternoon because i said no.
Would it be best just to say yes for a happy life or stick to my guns. Thanks.

I have been with my fiancé to the football and I don’t like it but he does things with me that I am sure does his head in! I just take it as enjoying spending time with him as a couple and compromising! If you think you can sit through it go, you may have a better time than you think!!! Don’t feel obligated to go though! Also if there is something you want to do you can say to him well I went to this with you.....

Has he asked as he has no one else to go with, or because he wants to spend time with you but also see wrestling too.

Hi hes asked me to go as there is no one else to go with, i have been before with him but i really cant go it. Ive also been waiting 16 years for a game of bowling but hes always refused to go.

You're not unreasonable and it's healthy to have separate interests. Let him go on his own.

I agree you’re not being unreasonable.
Maybe make a deal that you will go if he comes bowling?

Urgh no way I’d go to a wrestling event, I can’t stand it. Just like DH wouldn’t come to see the ballet with me. We do things together that we’d both enjoy.