Well that’s it really. DP and I have been together 2.5 years, I still fancy him and love him but we rarely have sex now. He loves me too, will cuddle etc but I sometimes feel like I’m “looking after” him rather than being his girlfriend. I can’t remember the last time we snogged or he initiated anything with me.
Sorry if this is TMI but he would just get himself aroused then do his business leaving me feeling like he’s put no effort in to please me.
I cannot remember the last time he went down on me, or played with me.
Do you think he’s just lost interest in me?
He’s very tired due to work I understand that but it never used to stop him before. I don’t want us to end up falling into a relationship that’s more like “mates”.
What can I do? I’m not losing interest because I get the feeling he shags me sometimes because he feels obligated to.
I talked to him about it because it’s affecting my self-esteem but he insists he does fancy me and think I’m beautiful etc. But he doesn’t compliment me anymore and the lack of sex suggests otherwise.
Anyone else had this?