So we had a big hindu festival yesterday and went to inlaws with dc. we wish everyone by shaking both their hands. As dc dh and I we’re last ones to get there, We went around to everyone in the room. by that time my fil was carrying one dd. I went up to him and said my wishes twice and also practically shoved my joined hands under his chin... it was a good 5 seconds. he seemed not to hear me or even notice me as was playing with my dd. I then went off and continued wishing the remaining people there. then went back to my fil said my wishes again. he didn’t reply and shoved money in my hand... money he was going to give to my children.
I then stood next to my hubby and he came over after some time to wish him and ignored me again.
We have never been close and have had issues in the past. but nothing recently. we even been to their house 3 days ago and he was laughing talking etc.
He is a religious man and always wishes people and for him to go out if his way to do this makes me so depressed and sad. He did it in front of a whole lot of people and it was so embarrassing for me to stand there... it like you wishing you fil merry christmas and he refusing to peck you on the cheek.
I just shocked at fact that someone can hate me so much... I have never been a troublemaker and don’t deserve this.