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Pls can anyone recommend a good private detective/investigator pls? I need to catch my cheating fiance.

Do you really need to go that far OP? If you already know he is cheating why do you need further proof ?

I'm really sorry you are going through this, I know what it feels like.

Also you might want to get this thread moved into 'relationships' where there is more traffic/support from members.

Why do you need to catch him? He’s your fiancée; just call off the wedding.

You don't need proof. Just dump him then he's your cheating ex finance and you've still got your money and your self respect.

OP - you are not married with several kids, yet.
No one can force you to marry him if you don’t trust him.

Leave. This is no way to start a life together.

Thanks ladies. I will move this post to the relationship Sec. yes, you are right, is just a waste of time and money to get a private investigator. We got engaged 6 years ago (but together 13+ years) but could not marry for financial reasons etc but then the idea of marriage or/and marrying him was not something I fancied really because he drives me cucubananas as time went By & he is not just serious about anything at all + he is not ambitious at all etc I can go on & ont till next year.

So - OP - why are you still with him?

Don't waste money on a private detective just keep your money and get rid of the useless idiot...you deserve a lot better than him!

What do you think hiring a P.I. Will solve?

Are there any signs or in a way or you hoping you catch him out so you can walk away "guilt free" and have a reason to give to outsiders as why the relationship ended.

Doubt there's any cheap ones that are any good and like others have said you don't need one anyway

We ve now gone our separate ways, the BASTARD moved out of my house & my son finding it a bit hard & I m standing strong for myself & kids but I am still fragile and fighting the urge not to call d bitch he went to spend d night with 2weeks ago. To be honest, I wish them both nothing good at all especially my ex (I hope he crashes his car & suffer significant life changing injuries & suffer - don't say I am too harsh pls because u have no idea what I ve done for that BASTARD so pls don't even go there) + my son is hurting and it is painful to see that.

Please don't wish nasty car accidents on people.

i don't & I have never wished nasty accident on anyone at all but no one is got any idea of what this guy put me through. The emotional, psychological trauma, stress & torture. Until u know how it feels to walk in the shoes I have walked in with this guy for 13years pls don't see me as bitter or nasty or judge me.

Did not pick the OP. It’s clear she is hurting and venting.

All the best op, focus on your future with your ds and free of the arsehole who obviously made your life difficult.
Enjoy being free!

That went from 0-60 really quick.
How did it go from you thinking of hiring a P.I. to finding out in the space of nearly 3 hours?

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It just did KungFu

Take care op

It just did KungFu

Take care op

springy my bad. Didn't realise we weren't allowed to ask any questions.
Thankyou for being the thread monitor.

She only asked a question springydaffs Jesus christ

And I replied. Freedom of thread movement and all.

Kung wasn't asking you though

Wouldn’t it help if you said whereabouts you are?

No point recommending a PI if they’re at the opposite end of the country.

Exactly, she wasn't asking you