I've been my current partner just under a year, we've both got children from previous relationships.
My ex has always been incredibly difficult too deal with, but we are now on civil talking terms which has taken a considerable amount of time.
He initially tried to stalk my current partner, and spent a lot of time obsessing about the new relationship.
He recently said too me (ex) that early into my new relationship my partner was seen leaving a bar and going into a hotel room (he knows his car as part of his stalking he did in the early months). He has also told me he's frequently seen my partner with different women in his car, who weren't me.
My partner is very kind, considerate and I would say almost 'perfect'. A few months ago I came across pictures of another woman on his phone, which he then tried to delete and deny, and eventually the truth came out that he had saved the pictures.
He has also liked pictures on instagram of women he was previously talking too with the view too date. All of which he denies but I always found proof.
After he initial issue with the pictures he's being saved he is adamant he's done nothing too upset me.
Which leaves me with the question is he lying? Is my ex lying? How on earth do I deal with this. After my exs last comment which I told my partner he suddenly decided to delete Facebook.
My ex was a cheat and I spent years working out whether he was lying or not, but his body language etc would suggest he's telling the truth.
Help me