Hello, this is my first post on here. I am currently 13 weeks pregnant and have my first scan today. My boyfriend went to the pub last night to watch Chelsea and promised me that he would only have 2 pints. 3 days before we found out we were expecting (baby was planned) he found out his uncle had passed, not long after that he lost his nan. Since then he's been going out every Friday night and staying out until 6am. I broke up with him over this and he promised me he would change but I feel like last night was more of the same. He ended up staying out until 12:30 and drinking too much. He didn't come home even when he knew I was upset. He's now hungover and we're waiting for our scan appointment. Further to this, I checked his phone last week. He's been talking to his best friend (who is female) and saying how hard he's finding it, how I won't let him go out, how he misses his freedom and misses sleeping with other women and how he doesn't think it will work but is glad he's getting a baby out of it. He apologised and said he was just frustrated but now I get a sick feeling every time he's on his phone. I just don't know what to do. Apologies for the long thread I just have nowhere to turn.