...when for whatever reason (job loss, stress, grief, etc) they lose their sex drive. Where once you were really proactive and energised and up for it, initiating, lingerie, etc, over time you gradually run out of energy and you end up like you just cant be fucked anymore.
You understand why their libido dropped but now that their sex drive is back you dont seem to want it anymore.
Has anyone experienced this? It would be good to hear some experiences/ideas and would be great if someone can explain tje psychology behind this.
Its like i dont want him anymore, when I know I really do. Now his drive is back but i just dont want him to touch me , its like something got killed off. Maybe its to do with having felt rejected? Or maybe a lack of his forcefulness?!