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Feeling miserable

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Shocker2017 · 09/09/2017 22:42

It's Saturday night I'm in on my own and feeling miserable after git has cheated on me . Anyone offer support X

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AnneLovesGilbert · 09/09/2017 22:46

You're not alone! We're here for you Flowers

Sorry he was a shit to you. It sucks. Have a hand hold.

Dontaskmegoogleit · 09/09/2017 22:46

Hey shocker x
Better to be alone than with a twat !?

Dontaskmegoogleit · 09/09/2017 22:49

He didn't cheat on you.
He cheated himself. ..because you are worth more than him .
He will either realise and be gutted or he will never realise what he has missed in you.
Either way he is the loser.!!!!!

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Shocker2017 · 09/09/2017 22:50

Thanks both , for hand hold and also he is a complete twat and arsehole. Having a glass or 2 of wine but not sure that's wise. X

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Properjob · 09/09/2017 22:51

Shocker that's very sad. There is lots of good advice on here and peeps will be up late with you if needed.

Chuck his clothes outside the door!!
Hope you get some sleep Flowers

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Shocker2017 · 09/09/2017 22:51

I hope he realises what he's lost X thanks both x

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Shocker2017 · 09/09/2017 22:54

Thanks all its been going on a while but I've kept busy most nights to avoid thinking. I'm exhausted. First time alone on a Saturday and I can't cope feel stupid. Sorry X

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Dontaskmegoogleit · 09/09/2017 23:04

Why do you feel stupid? What have you done ?

As minor as it sounds watch ,some trash TV ....nothing better when you have a few drinks.
It may help take your mind of things if only for a short while x

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Shocker2017 · 09/09/2017 23:08

Done nothing just feel pathetic, I know I shouldn't, he is a complete git, but it's all feels crap at the moment.

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Dontaskmegoogleit · 09/09/2017 23:14

I know it feels crap.
A lot of us have been there. ..but that's why they invented Ben and Jerry's, Gloria gaynor,Rom coms etc etc.
I know it's hard and hurts but this is the worst and it will get better.
Take care x

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Shocker2017 · 09/09/2017 23:20

Thanks will watch some trash and try and get some sleep x

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Howlongtilldinner · 10/09/2017 04:25

Saturday nights are overrated. You are a normal and sane human being, if you are watching the telly on Saturday night.

To feel crap when someone has cheated on you is also normal. It's the worse feeling in the world (at the moment) but it will pass.

Be kind to yourself, you're clearly destined for better thingsSmile

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Shocker2017 · 10/09/2017 17:53

Thank you for that howlong I honk I'll use it as a mantra x

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