Not a boyfriend but a FWB currently
Tonight I told him my ds is in bed with me again
He said 'ah well you want to stop that now or it'll become a problem'
I said 'thanks if I need parenting advice I'll ask'
I was pissed off
It's not a problem for me, so who was he referring to 
himself probably
I've told him that I don't know if I want or am ready for a relationship, he's saying he'd like me to give him 2 hours a week
Well sometimes I don't have that! Or I want to do other stuff
It's only been 3 dates and one shag
He also says he feels I used him for sex 