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Am I thinking too much into it?

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Spacebound · 04/09/2017 21:27

Hi everyone,

Just need a bit of advice please. A few months ago my husband was on a works night out, when he got home he had blusher all over his face, he said a woman from work brushed it onto his face out of nowhere as a joke when his friends were taking pictures, he was drunk when he came home but he didn't try to hide it from me, he said he remembers her doing it but he didn't realise there was anything on the brush. The same night he got a taxi into the city with this woman to collect her phone as someone had picked it up by mistake. He is not the type of person to cheat he said he just didn't like the thought of her getting a taxi on her own and I believe him because that's the type of person he is. I just can't get it all out of my head, I try not to think about it we have had a few arguments over it and he promises me nothing at all has happened and it never would, I'm pretty certain I believe him.

Then tonight I was talking about my friend from work, Lauren. He responded so what did Laura say then, I mean Lauren! Laura is the girl he works with. I just ignored it and answered him but I can't stop thinking about it. Am I thinking too much into it or should I be worried?

Thanks

OP posts:
Boatmistress17 · 04/09/2017 21:30

The fact he is making you doubt your instincts makes it dodgy.
He has a penis. He is capable of cheating. .

nodogsinthebedroom · 04/09/2017 21:31

Obviously no one can say for sure if your husband is up to no good but on the basis of this alone I would say they yes, you are reading too much into it.

nodogsinthebedroom · 04/09/2017 21:32

Boatmistress17 you could say the same about anyone with a vagina.

Boatmistress17 · 04/09/2017 21:36

And if a man had posted I would have. .

nodogsinthebedroom · 04/09/2017 21:40

Fair enough

FisforFamily · 04/09/2017 21:45

Without anything more, I do think you are thinking too much, hard not to do though I'll grant you Brew

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