I have a sister I love very much but I am afraid I don't like her very much. Her husband isn't very nice either. My sister msgs me on Fb and tells me to remove posts l have put on and my mum has too. She wants me to delete some of my mums friends because in her words 'mother is making herself look a fin twat.you should get those dickheads off her friends list.' these are ppl my mum 85 has worked with for years. ' .....the problem is she has so many arseholes as friends, childish wankers from ...... that she is getting linked to all this shit'This was because my mum accidentally put on a gif , it wasnt anything terrible just from a film .
We all have problems with our weight me dds and hubbs and my mum and we are all overweight. Tonight ,while they were here watching Pointless, dsis husband was very nasty about an overweight woman on the screen. He kept saying things like 'you have to have a stool because you are too fat to stand'. It made me feel awful I know he was going on to be nasty to us. I don't know what to do .If I say anything then they browbeat me down and say I am being aggressive. My mum is is tears all the time over them. What can I do ?