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Not even in a relationship!

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raspberrysuicide · 29/08/2017 14:56

I started chatting to this really nice man on a dating site last week. He said all the right things and I was really hopeful that I'd found someone at last! No such luck...
He's been saying some quite strange things like how we are going to be a blended family (we both have 2 children) and he made a comment about me being his partner, new man and lover! Did I want to get married?
At that point I said hang on a minute we haven't even met yet!
He keep sending me really cringy messages and it's giving me the creeps tbh. I'm pleased he doesn't know where I live!
I've managed to ignore him for the last couple of days, but I must tell him that he's coming over a bit desparate. What can I say? Any ideas?

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Smeaton · 29/08/2017 14:58

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XJerseyGirlX · 29/08/2017 15:00

Exactly what you have posted on here.. tell him. Then block him

raspberrysuicide · 29/08/2017 15:17

We are chatting on WhatsApp

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kingfishergreen · 29/08/2017 15:29

You might want to rethink this statement: "I started chatting to this really nice man" and maybe replace it with:

"I started chatting to this really STRANGE man".

Walk away.

Bant · 29/08/2017 15:32

'Hi,

It was nice chatting to you but I've been getting more and more uncomfortable with your insistence about a future with me when we haven't actually met in person. I don't think I'd like to continue chatting. Good luck with everything and I hope you find someone nice in the future

Then delete and block

raspberrysuicide · 29/08/2017 15:37

kingfisher
I stupidly didn't read it through before I posted it!

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ChevalierTialys · 29/08/2017 15:37

"Hi friend, thank you for the conversations we've had, they have been interesting. I don't feel like this is going to go any further, therefore would ask that you no longer contact me.

Take care,

RaspberrySuicide

raspberrysuicide · 29/08/2017 15:37

Bant
Thank you that's perfect

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ChevalierTialys · 29/08/2017 15:38

Then block block block

raspberrysuicide · 29/08/2017 15:47

Yes absolutely!

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