texting an ex on his birthday

[walruswoo]

Would you text someone you broke up with happy birthday when you broke up fairly recently? Birthday is tomorrow and unsure. We had a very rough time leading up to break up and it's been about 6 weeks now& I have no bad feelings but haven't heard from him and have stayed away from everything that might give me any idea as to what he's been doing since. The break up went along the lines of him saying he no longer likes me in that way and me just being fed up with a number of things so I walked away after that phone call but was a mutually agreed parting.
Neither of us want each other back and I haven't heard from him or contacted him since. I just don't know if I'm being petty not texting or if I should just keep nc. Or maybe I'm being weird just thinking of doing it idk! We were together 3 years.

No. You just reminded me that my ex's birthday was earlier this month. We were together seven years and have a dd. Don't waste your energy - look forward not back.

I wouldn't bother.

No. 6 weeks is too soon. Sounds like you have dome a good job of moving on with your life, why risk upsetting the apple cart?

No definitely not

No, don't do it.

Never. If there's been no contact since you broke up then why bother

FUCK NO.

hth

Thank you all! God this has helped. I've even sat here today being like ohhh why does it have to be so soon after and then also thinking fuck what am I even thinking about it for haha. Ahh I feel so much better. And a bit pathetic as well tbh