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User1235567 · 18/07/2017 10:00

Hi all.
Name change for this
So long story short, was with oh for 9 years, 1 DD, he was very clever at controlling me, his anger issue was a major problem, he didn't have much patience and has basically taken me for granted the whole time we was together. I couldn't cope with it anymore and one day suddenly enough was enough and I told him I was unhappy and basically the relationship is done. Ever since we have been in separate beds and barely talking, only about dd. I'm hoping to move soon and I'm guessing he is too.
Right so, since then I have bumped into a man that I used to see when I was very young, not much was said when we first seen each other ( because I was so nervous ) since then we have spoken every day, he lives hours away from me so up until this week I hadn't seen him, when we did see each other the physical attraction is crazy and we had a few kisses!
So here's my question, do I stop this before it gets out of hand or do I go with the flow and see what happens?
I don't want a relationship at the minute but love his company. Also I do feel like I fall a bit too easily and worried about that too.
What do you all think? Have any of you been in this position before?
Thank you

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NoMoreDecorating · 18/07/2017 10:16

If you don't want a relationship right now I would make this clear to the man. How long have you and your ex been seperated? Are you married? Are you willing to go through the complications of starting a new relationship while still living with your ex and attempting to seperate your life from him?

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