Found out this morning that he doesn't appear to have done anything with regard to financial form filling etc. We've been apart (he was arrested) ten months. The Nisi hearing was a couple of weeks back. He has a lovely new life, lots of friends etc. that he's happy with. Me, I'm still doing all the things I always did, with less money. Our children, whilst adults need a great deal of support, so I do all of that, any extra financial stuff they need sorting etc. He buys them a present every so often. He's still in control, I wanted to move this year, away from here, far away, but I can't do anything until he fills the fucking forms in. On top of which I've been trolled by an arse this week and the dog ate my Birkies this morning.
I'm feeling right weepy and sorry for myself today.