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Please could I have ideas/opinions

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Iglu · 10/07/2017 10:23

I'll try not to drip feed...

Me and the OH have a difference of opinion on what to do at weekends and it's causing problems/issues etc.

He has zero energy, like literally nothing... always tired from the minute he wakes up (apart from the working week Mon-Fri). I have suggested he has no energy because he is doing nothing! He is a little overweight, his eating habits are not the best, he is on AD and has MH issues.

On the weekend he wants to do NOTHING. Fair enough that's his downtime from the working week.

We have 2 dogs, he can't be bothered to help me walk them at the weekend, and when I say walk, I mean we sometimes go to a big field which is 5 minutes walk from here and give them a good run (throw the ball) so I do it in my own.

Me on the other hand, I enjoy family time at weekends, doing things together, road trips, days out, spontaneous trips etc but he never wants to go anywhere.

We both came to the agreement of one day of doing nothing and the other one day but he hasn't even stuck to that.

I have advised he go and get his bloods checked with GP because he had achy bones last week which to me sounds like a lack of Vit D.

I don't wish to go into detail about our relationship because apart from this issue we are great. Just any ideas on how maybe to solve would be great? Again sorry if I have drip fed.

OP posts:
Aquamarine1029 · 10/07/2017 11:33

How old is your partner?

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