Can anyone help? At the moment, ex does not have a car so I have to drop the kids off with him and pick up. Its all been adhoc until I've suggested having a proper schedule in place for when he has them.
He has completed disagreed with my suggestion (I know for a fact, just to be awkward) and is also saying that he intends to have the kids staying at his Mum's so he doesn't have to pay so much maintenance.
Can you do this?
Also, how can I get past this? He doesn't put the kids first and just wants to get back at me. How do I deal with it?
Should I just tell him, as I'm the one dropping them off he will have to do it my way??