reigniting your love life

[Adamadamant]

One for the older readers. We're trying to rekindle our sex life, both in our late 50's and been togther for 25 years. Our libidos is not what is use to be but we do not want our sex life just to dwindle away. We are open minded, still in love but just lost our way when it comes to sex. Anyone have any experience and ideas.
Many thanks and have a lovely weekend.

I suppose think about things that would turn you on and see if they turn your partner on?

Have you had fantasies that are realistically achievable?

Maybe read some erotic fuction?

Fiction!!!! Bloomin phone!

What about trying the mojo upgrade online? You both complete a short questionnaire and then it compiles the things you've both said you fancy trying or are open to the idea of. My DP and I tried it recently, it was quite fun and, while we know each other well and are very open about intimate things, there were some surprises there. Have a fun weekend

wherearemymarbles and there was I googling erotic fuction! Thanks for your help

I always have heard good things about putting 10 things you'd like to do or explore & putting the ideas in a jar & pulling one out at a time.

Thankyou Brahms3rdracket that sounds fun, its silly but we've become inhibited about talking about sex, so silly I know considering how long we've been together and what pleasure we gained from our sex life. Do you know the website for Mojo?

Thanks The Naze73 We did this a long time ago when our children were small and we had a lot of fun with it. I it is now time to revisit, thanks for your advice.

Have a great weekend

Hi Adamadamant (great username btw), the website is mojoupgrade.com.

I understand exactly what you mean about increased inhibitions. We were like this too until more recently and are having lots of fun planning adventures together again. We even have a date night and babysitter tomorrow night and are planning for a bit of al fresco fun while the weather's warm. How about that suggestion for you two too?

Hi Brahms3rdracket thanks great suggestion, we have a secluded garden and before kids we use to sleep outside on hot nights and it always felt very sensual. No reason not to give recreate our younger days!

Hope you have a great date night and thanks for your advice it really is appreciated.