Where can you get advice that isn't mumsnet?

[SilverdaleGlen]

In desperate need of neutral people to talk to but it's very specific and I just darent. If I ended up splashed across the DM rag my life would be over.

[PacificDogwod]

Relate? Or similar relationship counselling service??

Or you could NC on here?

Use 'the other place' on MN? Or '30 days only'?

Hope you are ok

[SilverdaleGlen]

Tried Relate they wouldn't help as they say I am too depressed and controlled for relationship councilling to be a good idea.

Tried a councillor from my work and they said I needed practical not emotional help and to call Women's aid.

Called women's aid local office (shaking) and was told they were closing in 5 minutes but if I left my number they would call tomorrow.

I am physically safe. But breaking.

[PacificDogwod]

Would you speak to your GP?

it all sounds very hard for you. Being safe just now is good.
You've reached out for help - that's really good and a very strong thing to do.

Sounds like Women's Aid may be a good port of call - i hope they'll get back to you.

I've PMed you btw.

[rumred]

Maybe try online counselling? Or a helpline which deals with your specific issue? Or samaritans?

[UnicornRainbowPoo]

If you need someone to talk to now try the Samaratins 116 123. You can call them for any reason and they will listen. I hop WA get back to you tomorrow.