hello I need some help and advice I have been married for 20 years with 2 kids 17 and 13 years my husband been behaving such going out without letting me socialising more with colleagues , staying all nigh out sometimes drunk wont come home its been too much for the last 6 months . I had enough and gave him a divorce form back in February he does not want and promise me to change all times nothing he bag me not to send them . Even our 20 years anniversary he was out with boss no message aknowledge nothing . I am greaving my mum pass away 1 month ago cant take anymore stress migraines is killing me I have him to go for for a while and see what he wants to do its a no he wants to stay with me sorry is the word I heard. I want to do a separation form now and see if he can change and we could try again . If anyone could give some tips or advice where to go what to do i will appreciate it .thanks