I met a man on a night out and we went on 3 dates and spoke regularly. As he is a very high earner I felt quite intimidated by him and didn't really get why he would want to talk to a public sector worker who is also a single Mum.
We were only dating very casually and he decided that we would be better as friends rather than anything else (after we slept together). I accepted this and moved on. He has contacted me a few times and I messaged back but did not pursue the conversation. His number is deleted and I am sure he is aware that it was not a friendship I was seeking so therefore move along.
So today I get a picture of his work schedule asking if anything looked strange in it. I looked and saw that he is going to an event 5 minutes from my home. So I said well that stands out. He replied he didn't know what it would be like. So I told him what I thought the event/activity would be and left it at that.
But seriously why bother to send me that. He isn't interested in me so why bother to contact me to tell me he will be around the corner. Why do some men do this? I feel as if he is looking for an ego boost or for me to say let's meet up.
This is totally a non issue but bugging me.