Bastard gave me chlamydia

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I'm too angry to be upset.

Found out he's been using prostitute websites and sex/hookup sites.

I had an sti test which came back negative, it's recommended to retest 2 weeks later if you could have had a recent exposure. So interested, and he fucking gave me chlamydia.

I've never had an sti in my life. I'm so angry he'd be so fucking irresponsible.

Having a big family has always been something really important to me and apparently chlamydia can cause serious fertility problems in women

Bastard

Oh OP sorry to hear this.

Is he your DP, DH, FWB?

I was foolish many, many years ago and had unprotected sex and caught chlamydia. Like you I was devasted and thinking it would hinder my chances of conceiving. I had two perfectly healthy DC without any problems. I think if you catch it early enough you're ok.

What a bastard though to put your health at risk. I think you should LTB

No experience of this but didn't want to read and leave. I'm sorry that he has done this to you. It is even worse that he hasn't even been careful and caught and given you an sti complete bastard.

We've been 'exclusive' for nearly a year, or so we agreed. so I'd say boyfriend but still early stages. Thank fuck I wasn't with him longer and more emotionally invested before this happened, as I saw potential 😞

And I know quite a few of my friends who've had chlamydia and had it sorted out so I know it isn't always serious - but if I hadn't seen his dodgy profiles, I'd have been none the wiser.

I must have had it for under a month but I'm still fuming he'd cheat so stupidly.

He completely denies it of course.

On one of the sex sites:' interests: anal, dogging, sex parties, gangbangs, cuckolding, fisting, swingers clubs'. Not even sure what a couple of those are and I dread the google results

anal = anal sex
dogging = public sex with strangers
sex parties = variable - sex with strangers, watching strangers have sex, group sex
gangbangs = many men, few or one woman
cuckolding = sex where the man in the relationship is watches wife or partner have sex with other men. Often the watcher is humiliated in some way. Given the other interests I suspect he wants to help women cuckold their parters
fisting = Inserting a hand into the vagina or rectum. Once insertion is complete, the fingers are either clenched into a fist or kept straight. Fisting may be performed without a partner, but it is most often a partnered activity. Guessing he wants to fist a woman.
Swingers club = same as a sex party.

Oh - and he is a bastard for cheating and giving you an STI.

Can only cause fertility if left for a year or so. When you have it that long that it clogs all your tubes up. Once you've had it for a long time it turns to pelvic inflammatory disease, where you literally bleed bits of your womb away. You've just found out you have it, don't panic, it's very very early days. It won't harm you at all if you get treated now for it.