Threesomes...

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Thinking of embarking on one ! Just wondered the after effects on a relationship
We are very open-minded in this department but worry that it may damage relationship

He used to be very jealous but he is now the one who is more eager to do this than me!
I suppose my deepest connection with my DP is sexually and I am actually aware that we may not be together forever.
Thinking of making the most of somebody so sexually open

mustrunmore - thanks for name of that mag - they have an interesting website!

I'm handling FIVE divorces at the moment where the wife was pressured into a threesome and later deeply regretted it.

DON'T DO IT.

I can see where you're coming from but I think if it was generally possible and had no after effects then loads of people, nay everyone would be at it. Change is as good as a rest and all that, innit?

ergo: it's doesn't work out all right in the end.

Good grief - disaster waiting to happen! DON'T DO IT!!!

i'd say the fact he used to be jealous, would be enough reason not to, you dont know if he will react favourably enough afterwards.

what if he got jealous because you got more attention than him, or you seemed to enjoy it with the other person more?

you will need some ground rules in place before doing a 3way , and be sure you can all stick to them